Of course we do not want to be tied to the stake, but she does not leave us, how is it crazy to say that she has no real power in our lives, that everything is in our thinking? I know it is a cartoonish way of representing the reality that we face every day, but, would not have talked to many people who have tried to help, but they simply refuse to see that the problem lies in how they see the problem? So where lies the power of the stake? The answer is simple: in ourselves uncomfortable it is to admit it. The first step away from the stake. Much has been said, in seminars, audio books and self-help and motivation, a journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. That is, we should not focus both on long (and sometimes convoluted) that may be the trip, but the first step and then continue taking steps to come. But what is the first step? Well, I think the answer to that question is cumbersome and paradoxical part of this article. On one hand I like jumping into the fray and say, as I have done in previous sections, it’s all in the decision, which must decide let go of the stake.

But on the other hand, it is undeniable that many times we tied our own choosing. So the dilemma is complicated a little bit, because in the words of Einstein, what we need is to raise our thinking to find a new level, the solution: self-awareness and expand our context. Now, we choose to want to be aware and want to extend our context. To be aware I mean, briefly, to accept personal responsibility for why I’m tied. And as to expand our context, I refer briefly also to learn to see beyond the usual, to see challenges as opportunities not problems, learn to be proactive rather than reactive. So the first step is a conjunction of three elements: 1) decision, because obviously we have to decide on whether or not the other two elements. 2) Self awareness in order to look objectively at our opportunities, assessing our strengths and weaknesses. 3) Expanding the context, learning new habits, learning to raise our thinking level to find creative solutions, dynamic and proactive to the challenges that try to keep us tied to a stake.

Note: Note that the guilt and frustration are very different things, the frustration is similar to when you stick in the leg by accident. So feel the frustration, it’s like realizing that you yourself did you by mistake. Be very careful not to fall into guilt because if you do your vibrations come down a lot. Once you enter into frustration takes over your power! Spend a few days thinking that this happened by accident and because he was unaware how to raise your vibrations but that’s up to you to change your feelings as you do the universe / God will send you new things Realize that your circunstancas are equal to the vibration you’ve been sending to the universe. And if you change your vibes change things. * Part of the ladder FRUSTRATION) (* Tip # 3 Take care Supposing you’ve entered the complete frustration and have come to feel that you drew this because you did not know how to do otherwise and your vibrations are the only thing that makes a magnet attracts lack of money, work and so on. Now turn to the occupation.

The occupation higher than calibrated frustration and your feeling now is much better than that of powerlessness with which you started. Make a list of all the outstanding things that you do and dedicate yourself to them, debris places in your house, write to friends who had written, read the books you have outstanding, do exercises … Finally, fill yourself with things to do, this will keep you busy and raise your vibrations. * Part of the scale (OCCUPATION / ABRUMACIoN) * Tip # 4 Marvel After spending abrumacion in trouble and a few days up the scale again and find the sense of wonder. The sense of wonder vibe highest gratitude and is similar to appreciation. Spend a few days marveling in the beautiful things of our planet, think of the rivers, lakes, seas, animals, insects, birds, the color of the sky, the planets, the marvelous human body, the microscopic realm, fruits, vegetables, the cuisine of each country, music, film, theater, dance, perfumes, cars, inventions of mankind, large buildings, medical and scientific advances, the stars, the moon. … have much, much material to marvel.

From here occupies your mind and you’ll marvel that the universe will deliver the most wonderful things imaginable. All appeals to his equal. When you succeed take your time and mental energy marvel and you’ll feel better for this then I assure you that the economic situation is very different than it is now.