Perhaps ours they are correct or better, but that does not have importance. Our objective is to win. And if to win, for one, it is to be promoted and increases of pay, to gain credibility and to obtain the confidence of " those of arriba" , we will have that to obey rules that we did not do. It is possible to be chosen between winning or demonstrating that we are in the certain thing, but rarely we will be able to make both things at the same time. Finally, it tmese in account, that to try to change the rules in other people’s territory is a game that we cannot to win; we try whenever it there will be a price that to pay. That price can be anger, frustration, depression or something worse. It can cost to us time, money, credibility and until use. Naturally, even playing in other people’s territory we can to choose.

We can gather ours ball and to return to house. If not us it likes the head, we can to resign or to request a transfer. If the negative part of a relation weighs more than the positive one, we can to cut that relation. If we do not like you limit them of speed, we can stop leading by those routes or not travel more in car. The fact is that, even in other people’s territory, the decision is ours. We can to choose between having left we or to go to us. *Fuente: School of Mental Education Original author and source of the article.